Love Education from the Love Doctor!!! hahah...

Being in Love what the hell is it??? feeling or expression??? anyway it must be a wonderful experience.

LOVE can be very mysterious, complex, difficult, and un-definable. I think it’s impossible to define love so I will not go in to that so much …maybe we like the mystery of it, I don’t know *giggles* … we tend to express love in many ways through our emotions, body language, poetry, songs, stories and intimacy.

Who do we give love to?
Our family, friends, pets, nature, work, neighbors.. ‘emmm its in the air… I love anything and everything! Yeeeeehaaa…

What does it feel like when you realize you are in love with someone?
Hmmm… the sudden feeling of your heart beating faster, you take long deep breaths, you get a bit nervous when he/she is near you, you feel that you want to be close to him/her.. not to close.. but close enough, you observe his/her every movement and body language, you start to admire him/her from a far then blush when he/she look at you. Every word that comes out his/her mouth is mesmerizing hahahah… How do we know we are in love? Heheh It’s simple!!!.. we feel like this all the time...heheh. Have you felt it yet??

Why don’t some people express their love?
I feel most people don’t always express their love. Our feelings and expressions are always separated. There is a reason why most people don’t express their love for another. Maybe they fear if they are too open about it, they might not get the reaction that they were expecting or maybe love is just a distraction and some people just dont want to loose their focus. Most people cant handle the pain of rejection, they get depressed and might not be able to get over it.. love hurts. I can understand that feeling…. it’s never easy, our hearts can be broken but it will heal it self. There is always someone out there for us.. you will never know when you might bump into them… but it’s just a matter of time. To me I can love someone without even expecting love in return.. it's something I sincerely give if anyone choose to accept. It just my way of showing that I care and isn't it nice to know that someone out there loves you regardless of who you are??? think about it...

What do we seek form Love?
Most people seek for attention. Nothing wrong with wanting some attention… but not too much la.. people will get sick and tired of you. This is how you give someone your attention... Make use of our 5 senses its there for a purpose:-
“Ears-Hearing”~ listen to your partners needs.. be a good listener, every word is important and everything matters.
“Eyes and nose-Sight and smell” ~ eye contact, watch out for each other and in our own way we give our undivided attention, notice what he/she wears it wont hurt to give a compliment if they look and smell great… remember he/she looks great for you!!
“Mouth-Speech ”~ what do u think you have mouths for?? To smooch of cause.. heheheh and smooching speaks for it self… *giggles* and not forgetting good communication and understanding too… hhehhe then smooch some more...
“Hands-Touch”~ Please tell me you know how to make use of this sense in private .. right!!! *giggles* look!! your partner will feel like he/she belongs to you when you hold their hands while walking or just sitting together... hug or cuddle show some effection... jeezzzz!!!

What do people expect from love?
I think in most cases all we expect is love in return and a mutual feeling. For me.. there is only 4 virtues:
~ Understanding is knowing our love one… it’s the first thing we must do to start a great relationship, its important to know what kind of person that you are giving your love to. You can’t master this trade all at once.. it takes a whole life time and experience to understand someone. So no rush! Take your time and go with the flow….
~ Trust is a virtue… you can’t carry on a relationship if you have no trust for you love one.. doubt and assumptions alone can kill the relationship. I know most people say “You can’t trust your boyfriend or girlfriend 100%”. It’s not a matter if you CAN or CAN’T! It’s about gaining Trust!!!
~Honesty is the best policy… JUST tell the truth, it’s better if they heard it from you first rather then hear it from someone else.. Don’t lie!! Once you start, you’ll have to keep on telling a lie to cover the 1st then the 2nd then the 3rd…etc. take actions for your responsibility ask for forgiveness, admit to your mistakes and make up for it that’s the least we could do to make things right!.
~ Show Respect.. Give space if he/she needs it. If your out with your love one, don’t compare or flirt with others … you’ll only make him/her jealous and feel like he/she isn’t good enough for you … it will only cause frustration trying to perfect themselves and ending up growing a conscious. It’s not wrong to flirt, it’s human nature.. don’t over do it :o) just make sure at the end of the day the one that matters the most is not taken for granted.

For some reason I don’t feel that loyalty or faithfulness is something I would expect from love.. I think it’s more of an individual thingy…heheh. People can fall IN and OUT of love, it’s beyond our control. I remember reading this poem from Angie’s blog

“If you love someone,

Set him free...

If he comes back, he is yours,

If he doesn't, he never was...”

It makes a lot of sense to me. There is no point loving someone who does not love you… if you love someone so much let them find their true love and be happy for them. Most people say Love is blind.. It’s TRUE!… it doesn’t recognise beauty, shape, size, wealth, status or success. Love knows and feels whats in our hearts. We can explain in words how we feel but we cant really express it because it’s a feeling only YOU will know!

I quote “Tell me a love story but leave the ending blank.. I never want it to end”
“When you say “I love You” make sure you mean it!” hehhehh Muah!!